By Mrs. Happy
How much should you talk about sex with your fiancé?
Not much, if you’re trying to live a chaste life. Our brains don’t need much of an excuse to think about sex, especially when we’re not having any. So any detailed conversation about sex with your fiancé can easily lead to arousal. In fact, if he is alive and breathing and pumping red blood cells, the conversation is leading to arousal. Might as well just admit it.
There is no need before marriage to discuss specific sexual practices, techniques, likes and dislikes (since many of us already have these because of an ungodly past), first and last experiences, and so on. You’re asking for trouble if you talk about these things. You will have buckets of time to do laboratory research and discuss your findings after you’re married.