By Mrs. Happy
How much should you talk about sex with your fiancé?
Not much, if you’re trying to live a chaste life. Our brains don’t need much of an excuse to think about sex, especially when we’re not having any. So any detailed conversation about sex with your fiancé can easily lead to arousal. In fact, if he is alive and breathing and pumping red blood cells, the conversation is leading to arousal. Might as well just admit it.
There is no need before marriage to discuss specific sexual practices, techniques, likes and dislikes (since many of us already have these because of an ungodly past), first and last experiences, and so on. You’re asking for trouble if you talk about these things. You will have buckets of time to do laboratory research and discuss your findings after you’re married.
The Biblical account of the Creation is painted first in broad strokes. The first few chapters of Genesis then fill in the details as we make successive passes through the account. A careful chronological ordering of the creation of man gives us this synopsis: God created man in His image, male and female. He put them in a garden where they were naked and unashamed and told them to procreate, and then God pronounced it good. In my Christian experience I have wanted to argue many a point with God; I have always cheerfully conceded this one.
